Chapter 19I feel like Sir Thomas is me. Which means it's probably a good thing I'll never be a parent, but yeah. I sympathize greatly with his desire to just believe his children feel bad rather than scold them and find out they don't.
It was interesting really seeing Mrs. Norris' twisting and scheming and manipulating in action, rather than seeing it reference like we usually do. She's
so blatant -- a part of me wants to shake Sir Thomas and go "WHY DON'T YOU SEE THROUGH HER?!?" (except I know why he doesn't, it's just frustrating that he doesn't).
Ah, Maria and Julia. I like how they handle Henry's leaving, although the point is still well-made that everything they do, they do for appearance's sake and not any actual moral conviction or strength of character.
Ahahaha and of course, Mrs. Norris wins in the end. She gets her green curtain.
They do have enough strength to not look as if anything's wrong; I admire that. But they don't have the understanding to find something other than pleasure and appearance to draw strength from. It wasn't encouraged in them, like how Fanny wasn't encouraged to prop herself on the things that give them importance. She was lucky - not to be abused, but to find something else in her books and love of poetry, nature, etcetera. They could only serve her internally, since no one but Edmund was praising her for being accomplished in those things. Reign within.
At least someone got something out of the ordeal!